A good vocabulary is a sign of a good education––and clear thinking. Unfortunately, there are common words people often use incorrectly, both when speaking and writing. Learn to use these words properly and you can increase both your communications skills and credibility as a writer/speaker.
Here are some words that people commonly confuse––and how to use each to communicate more effectively.
Anxious vs. Eager
People often use “anxious” when they’re excited about something. (Example: “I’m really anxious to see that new superhero movie!”) However, “anxious” comes from the same root as “anxiety,” which means fear and apprehension. You can be “anxious” about going to the doctor or preparing for a blind date, but if you are looking forward to something, use the word “eager.” (Example: “I’m eager to try that new Chinese restaurant.”)
Jealous vs. Envious
When people look hungrily at someone else’s success or good fortune, it’s often said they are “jealous.” (Example: “I’m really jealous of that new sports car Matt bought.”) Actually, “jealously” is related more to fear of losing something you already have than to wanting something that belongs to someone else. For example, you can be “jealous” of a boyfriend or girlfriend you fear is unfaithful. You can guard your money “jealously.” But if you wish something that belongs to someone else could be yours, that’s “envy.” (Example, “I really envy Brittany’s good grades.”)
Unique vs. Unusual
How often have you said something like, “Wow, that was a really unique story,” or “That was one of the most unique meals I’ve had in a long time” when trying to express that something is rare. The true meaning of “unique” is “one-of-a-kind.” Unless you mean that something is literally unlike anything else, what you probably mean is that it is “unusual.” Another thing about the word “unique”: it’s a superlative, which means it cannot be modified. Something cannot be “most one-of-a-kind.” (Just as something cannot be the “most biggest.”) It either is or it isn’t. So before speaking, consider whether what you’re talking about is “really unusual” or truly “unique.”
Assure vs. Ensure vs. Insure
Here’s a truly tricky trio. “Assure” means to pledge or promise. (Example: “I can assure you, I will be home by midnight.”) “Ensure” means to guarantee or protect. (Example: “The sunny weather forecast ensures our picnic will be a success.”) “Insure” means to cover with a financial instrument that promises payment in the event of loss or damage. (Example: “My car is fully insured.”)
If you are “anxious” about your academic or professional prospects, if you are “envious” of others’ success and are looking for an “unusually” high degree of personal satisfaction, then we can “assure” you that using these words properly will “ensure” you a brighter, happier future.
